This is the recipe that I have been using for my Emperor's Children!
Credit to DarthCosiCat for inspiration for a lot of this.
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Wash the undersuit and the bolter with Nuln Oil to dull the shine and darken them up
Apply a thin layer of Abaddon Black to the undersuit
For the black armour/gun casings/etc. I use a 2:2:1 mix of Black Legion , Black Templar , and Contrast Medium . Apply it with a wet brush so that you get thin, smooth layers. Apply more layers until you achieve the effect you want.
Base coat the armour panels you want to be pink with Emperor's Children .
Big Warhammer 40k fan, especially all the slaanesh stuff. Not an expert by any means, just sharing the recipies and techniques I find effective :)